Posted by: Jody Shelton | July 2, 2009

How American are you?

brazilSomeone once told me that you grow as a person by the places you go, the books you read and the people you meet. I agree with this statement. God has allowed me to be a part of several different mission endeavors all across the world and for this I am thankful! What about you? Here are 5 reasons why every person should travel and see other parts of the world and every Christian should go at least once and experience a different culture.

1. Getting out of your comfort zone. We as Americans are so spoiled to the “extras” in life, most of the world is not as developed as the U.S.A. and lacks some things we think are necessities and take for granted. Here are some examples: clean water, good sewer systems, ice, air conditioners…etc.

crewchief2. All men are created equal, “one of the best-known sentences in the English language” –sound familiar? We often can have the attitude that we are somehow superior to other people from other countries and nations. We may have more “stuff” but we can learn a lot about work, family and dedication to God from our brothers and sisters from other parts of our planet.

3. Exposure. We live in a visual world and it can be very difficult to imagine what another place or country is like until you actual see it for yourself. Read the words of Christ in Matthew 9:35-37 sometimes we simply need to go and see.

4. Heavenly perspective. When we worship alongside christian brothers and sisters from another language, tribe, or nation we get a glimpse of how we will gather around the Throne room of God as all nations will worship God for who He Is!!!  On my most recent trip to Puerto Rico worshiping with the Puertoricans was the highlight for my group.

5. Experience & Unity. Each opportunity I have had to travel with friends and kids in previous youth groups I form a bond with them that will always be. The unity of a group of people formed on a mission trip is powerful. The experience will always be a memory that you share together with your team! One thing that comes to mind as I shared with my group before we left is to be FLEXIBLE, anything can happen and each day is a new adventure!

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God gives us the command to GO, pray this prayer as you GO,

“Lord I want to see as you see and understand as You understand”

Now trust God to be with you and GO!!!

Posted by: Jody Shelton | June 16, 2009

Where did man come from?

me and gorillaLast week I was with Dawson at the Jacksonville Zoo and had an amazing time. Seeing so many different animals reminds me of God’s wonderful imagination on the day of creation. There was a particular zoo keeper that decided to enlighten me about what he called “our closest relative” the Bonobo (pic at the bottom). After I let him tell me his perspective on where we came from I made sure that he knew I was a Creationist. He was not very happy about the fact that I disagreed that the Bonobo was my closest relative. I didn’t get a chance to converse with him and explain to him why I believe what I believe so I will do so now.

1. Genesis 1:24-27, states very clearly that God made animals according to their kind and then He made man in His image. This shows two separate events in creation. God also made it clear that we have dominion over animals, showing we are not equal, and even though we may have some similarities we are not ancestors of any animal. See 1 Corinthians 15:39. God also tells us that Adam was made from “the dust of the ground” (Gen 2:7) not from an ape.

To be clear I believe in the Creation account 100% based upon God’s Word, Here are a few more reasons.

2. Approximately 95% of all known fossils are marine invertebrates and only about 0.1% are vertebrates (animals with bones). Scientists and their imaginations have been used to the full extent with no more evidence than a tooth, see Nebraska man and also “Lucy“.  Listen to the words of Dr. David Pilbeam, “He said it was not due to the discovery of only one particular specimen, but the recovery of various materials made him realize that his previous statements, which had been made so adamantly, were really based on very little evidence. Because they were based on so little evidence, he began to wonder why he had held them so strongly. It made him think about the nature of scientific thinking, and this precipitated a very profound change in his approach to analyzing data. He said that many of the statements made in the field of human origins had ‘very little to do with the real data and a great deal to do with unstated assumptions’. He thought this was true not only of his field but, ‘Much of what is said in other areas, I think, is also highly speculative”.

3. The question may come up about the similarities in the DNA of chimps andbonobo Humans. Similarity is not evidence for common ancestry but is due to a common Designer! The unity of all creation is a testimony of The One True God who made it all. Rom 1:20 Col 1:15-16 Is a cloud which is made up of  100% water—somehow related to a watermelon, which is 98% water. It is not the similarities, but the significant DIFFERENCES between humans and chimps that make us unique.

The real missing link in our world is not the ape-man but the link that is broken between Creator and creation. God wants us to know Him and to become like His Son Jesus Christ. We were made to worship and obey Him! Put your faith and trust in Christ not in the shifting sand of the science world. The answers are found in Genesis.

For further reading & sources used:

  • Did Eve Really have an Extra Rib? Ken Ham
  • Answers Book, Don Batten
  • The New Answers Book 2, Ken Ham
  • For further research, answersingenesis

Posted by: Jody Shelton | June 4, 2009

What Leaders do

So many different kinds of personalities and styles are represented when we begin the conversation about leadership. There is some basic principles that I believe each leader should possess if he/she wants to influence people. The 6 above books I highly recommend to anyone who has found themselves in a position of authority or influence. All of us influence someone and have the opportunity to make an impact as God places us in different settings to stretch our potential.

Here is a list of some principles I have learned as I seek to become a better leader:

1. Listen People want to be heard, no matter how old or how young they may be. Do you find yourself waiting for someone to stop talking so you can pipe in with your opinions about their comments? Good leaders listen to those God has entrusted to their care.

2. Spend time with people Some of the best moments of leadership is being with people in unique settings. You cannot be successful in leadership if you are not with people. If you are not with the people you are leading you miss the opportunity to share teachable moments and develop strong relationships with those you are leading.

3. Keep Growing & Learning Howard Hendricks says “stop growing today, stop teaching tomorrow”. The same principle applies to leadership: read, watch, grow, learn, ask, teach… Good leaders recognize learning is a lifelong pursuit, each day is a new endeavor to pursue excellence and to become the best you can be.

4. Available There are some unbelievable tools available that help us stay connected with people. Some examples, email, websites, blogs, facebook, cell phones (texting). We live in a world that is connected and searching for Real Life people to help them with the issues they are facing. Be Available and remember face to face is always ideal if possible.

5. Character The last and most important trait that ALL leaders must possess is character. Do a quick leadership analysis of yourself.

  • Do I have to get the glory?
  • Am I the same person everywhere I go?
  • Are there certain things I do that are compromising my character?
  • What are my motives as I strive to become the leader God made me to be?
  • Do I say one thing and then do another?

If you find yourself in any position of leadership remember to always serve those you are leading. Leadership can be learned and each of us must strive to become more effective in the leadership role that God has placed us in.

Posted by: Jody Shelton | May 18, 2009

Teachers who go above and beyond!

100_3163You are looking at pictures of Dawson with his teacher Mrs. Nyemade Baker-Marsh (on the left) and her parapro Ms. Turner (on the right).  These two amazing teachers have been with Dawson for the past two years, and it is hard to believe that Dawson’s time with them has come to an end.  There are many teachers in the world who teach for a job, but there are a few teachers who teach because it is their life.  These two wonderful ladies live and breathe teaching special needs children.  Dawson has loved school for the past two years.  He puts on his backpack and walks to the car with a smile each morning.  When Dawson looks at Mrs. Nyemade and Ms. Turner  he smiles, hugs them, and plants a  kiss on their cheek. For a child who is non-verbal, that is Dawson’s way of  telling them ”I love you.”  As parents we struggle with how to say thank you to two teachers who have potty trained our child, taught him to eat, put on his book bag, sit in circle time for 45 minutes and love it, teach him to match, to sort, to drink out of a cup, to walk in a straight 100_3176line down the hallway, to follow the classroom routine, to follow directions, to listen, to obey, to point to the month and day at calendar time, to trace numbers and letters, to independently write a “D” and an “A” for Dawson, to color in the lines, to cut, to glue, to do puzzles, to love school, to become a better functioning child with autism, and probably a million other things that we 100_3160have left out.

Thank you just does not seem adequate enough.  However, Mrs. Nyemade and Ms. Turner, our hearts are overflowing with gratitude for all you have done.  Thank you, Thank you, Thank you for loving Dawson through good days and bad, and for being the best teachers that a child or parent could ever ask for.  May God richly bless you each and everyday.

Posted by: Jody Shelton | May 5, 2009

Iron Sharpens Iron

iron_sharpens_ironI have a burning desire to see men rise up and seek strong biblical relationships with other men. The church is in desperate need of authentic relationships and transparency within the community of believer’s. A few days ago I reconnected with an old friend from my home church in Amarillo. We have known each other 25+ years and I have not spoke to him in about 7 years. He informed me that he is a recovering alcoholic. The one thing he said that really impacted me was that the church needs to become the comfort and refuge for people to turn to when they are experiencing deep despair. Clearly people are turning to everything but the church to deal with unresolved issues in their life. According to a recent Gallup poll 62 % of the American population drinks regularly. According to some studies 50% of men have viewed pornography in the last month. What we need in the church is Men who will rise up and not be afraid to admit they need help in the darkest hidden places of their soul.

God wants us to go beyond superficial conversations and begin images3sharpening one another as we deal with real life needs and struggles. The church needs to be a hospital for the sick so the sick will NOT look for temporary relief elsewhere. The world is looking for answers, if we do not share with them the love and restoration of the cross of Jesus Christ, they will search for it in a bottle, computer screen, extramarital relationship, pleasure or pursuit of material possessions…. The church needs to step up and become what God intended it to be, a place of restoration, hope, instruction, encouragement, worship of the ONE true GOD and helping people deal with tough issues of life.

Closing thoughts: Men share your life with other men (including your struggles)

  • Accept anyone who is searching & seeking (no matter what they look like, or what they have done)
  • Do not be afraid to confront in love a brother or sister who is drifting away from God—we are brothers & sisters in Christ
  • If you are in ministry don’t be afraid to get your hands dirty—real ministry takes place in the trenches.
  • Make sure you have a support system (people who love you and will stand beside you)
  • Admit when you fail and blow it—Get back up and press on!

The one person who is consistent and stays with you if you are a believer is Jesus Christ. He promised to never leave you or forsake you. He is with you every step of the way, walk in His ways and trust HIM!

Posted by: Jody Shelton | April 30, 2009

Top Ten Verses Everyone Should Know!

    One of the most important traits a person can have is a knowledge of the best selling book of all time, the Bible. Spiritual disciplines are very difficult and one of the hardest is scripture memorization. If each of us would take the time to study and memorize portions of God’s Word we would experience true transformation. This list is the TOP 10 verses I value as I walk with God.

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  1. 1. Ephesians 2:8-9 These verses might be the most important in the New Testament. They show us we can do NOTHING to receive God’s favor. He gives us the gift—we DO NOT earn it, we must receive it by faith. God’s standard at the end will not be “how good were you,” HIS standard will be did you receive the free gift my SON offered you?  
  2. 2. 1 Corinthians 10:13 This is one of the first verses I memorized and one of the most important for a follower of Christ to understand. God gives us a way to deal with situations that come into our life, it is our job to find the way out.

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3. Proverbs 3:5-6 Most of us want our paths to be straight and we can get very frustrated when we feel as if we are spinning out of control. These verses tell us the formula for staying where God wants us—on HIS path!

 

4. John 10:10 If you are one of those people who believe that if you become a follower of Christ that life gets boring and you have to follow a set of rules, you are missing what the Christian life is all about. God brings us joy and abundance when we trust in HIM!

5. Acts 1:8 This verse is important for the church and the Christian to understand God’s formula and design for us to reach the world for Christ.

6. Romans 1:16 If we stand for Christ and honor HIM and stay consistent the world will respect us. If we decide one day to live like a Christian and then turn around the next day and deny HIM we lose the power God wants to give us through HIS message. The gospel is alive and active!!!

7. Galatians 5:16-18 We must begin to feed the Spirit within us, where we make a mistake is by continuing to feed our sinful nature as we walk with Christ. In order to achieve the Spirit-filled life which simply means (controlled by God’s Spirit) we must lay aside sin that entangles us. Feed your spirit and not your flesh, natural man or sinful nature—all the same thing.

1564681_son_kissed8.  Romans 12:1-2 These 2 verses transformed my mind as I began to understand the importance of allowing God’s Word to get into my mind or what I like to call my spiritual hard drive.

 

9. Colossians 3:23 The one person who sees everything we do is God, nothing is hidded from HIS sight. Whatever job you may have teacher, pastor, lawyer, salesman, stay at home mom–(the hardest), construction worker or salesman–give it your very best. God desires for us to be our best. Our work ethic is a reflection of our character.

10. Romans 3:10, 23, 5:8, 6:23, 10:9-10  These verses will bring new life to the person who reads them and understands and confesses their sins to God. The verses have been known as the “Romans Road,” If you have not received Jesus Christ as your personal Saviour read these verses and see the amazing gift God gave to you—eternal life through HIS SON Jesus Christ.

Posted by: Jody Shelton | April 24, 2009

ThExchange

For many years I have been doing Wednesday night programs and have seen some changes take place in the way youth ministry is done from year to year. However, nothing has been as significant as the way it has changed in my group now. There are so many reasons why I like what we are doing at ThExchange so I thought I would list a few!

* Round tables (there is no head of the table all are equal)

* Table leaders it is amazing watching our college students and adults interact

* Connection–to see people talk about relative issues they face everyday while meeting new people who are going through similar situations.

* Live Polling of the audience—allows us to anonymously see what is going on with the students in our group.

* Discussion, it has been awesome to see students and leaders discuss during the message and apply the biblical principles being taught!

One of our live texting polls Wednesday night asked this question:

One of my scars is_____________, and I deal with it by_______________________.

Here is a few examples of some of the comments back:

Divorce—-Prayer

Emotions—-Cutting

my dad being an alcoholic—-talking to my mom

my parent’s apathy towards church—-listening to music

being short—-being sarcastic

As you can see our group is taking the necessary steps to being real. My prayer is that we go beyond surface type relationships and  begin “sharing life with one another.” God desires for us to confess our sins to one another and seek out people who can help us conform to the image of His Son Jesus Christ. One thing is certain we all experience pain and hurt and need a Refuge in our time of trouble. God is with us every step of the way!

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Posted by: Jody Shelton | April 16, 2009

Some days just feel normal!

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Spring break was pretty amazing with Dawson. At times it can be VERY difficult to take Dawson to places where you are supposed to be civilized such as restaurants and quiet places.  We usually hang out at places like Wal-Mart, Dick’s, Pet Smart, Best Buy, Church….. However, I decided to venture out in Ellijay and take him with me to get a Barbecue sandwich at the new Shane’s Rib Shack. I ordered the “Big Dad” pork sandwich for ME! I noticed as Dawson and I were sitting in the booth He kept looking at my sandwich, so finally I handed it to him and he ate the entire thing. After eating 3/4 of my sandwich he signed “more” so I bought him another $4.95 sandwich and he ate almost the whole thing. One thing about autism is that many children like sticking to the same things “routine”. Dawson eats only red popsicles out of the box, oreos, Ruffles cheddar & sour cream chips, Vanilla wafers, Cheerios and few other things at home. When Dawson is at school He eats rather well and has been known to eat a lot. daw2Home is different it can be a real struggle to get him to eat anything.  Since we have been back from spring break we have spent plenty of money at The Shane’s in Loganville. He has had pork every day sometimes more than once. It will be interesting to see how long his appetite for pork stays around.

When I got home from work tonight Dawson grabbed my hand and wanted me to chase him around the house and wrestle with him on the bed. As we were rolling around on the bed laughing and playing his eyes were looking directly into mine and the thought crossed my mind “some days just feel normal!”

Posted by: Jody Shelton | April 5, 2009

Keep Praying for Amanda

Posted by: Jody Shelton | April 4, 2009

Youth Pastor Job Description (at least from my perspective)

_wsb_381x276_studentworldNot to long ago a girl in my ministry asked me, “what exactly do you do?” I was a little caught off guard and stumbled around my words, so I thought I would take just a little bit of time and share with you what youth ministry looks like on a day to day basis. Here is a hilarious take on youth ministry check it out here.

Here are some examples of what I do: pray, study, read, keep up with teen culture (not very easy to do), preach, teach, share, text, email, facebook, administrate, organize, make phone calls, return phone calls, conflict resolution, plan activities, hospital visits, confront, encourage, get frustrated, strategize, buy new tools for ministry, edit video, clean up, talk to parents, support my pastor, go to meetings, travel, meet new people, raise money, balance my time with my family, go to school events (concerts, games, …), develop leaders, update website, share life with others, stay up all night, drive a bus and go out to eat!

There are so many reasons that I love what I do—The primary reason is seeing teenager’s give their life to Christ.  The other night at church I was talking to a girl about her life and I realized that the conversation needed a little more attention then a 3 or 4 minute chat so I gave her my cell number and we ended up talking on the phone for about 45 minutes. This young lady gave her life to Christ on the phone that night! The fact that God can use someone like me (who deserves nothing that I have) is a realistic picture of the grace of God. n678962993_1454500_4701

My youth group aka…MZS is amazing! There are some awesome kids that God is molding and shaping into the image of HIS SON. I love to see teenager’s get connected into the group.  I feel that God has His hand upon us and is ready to use ALL of us if we will be obedient to HIS calling!  What if each student truly became obedient to what God desires for their life? What if each of us really got passionate about inviting our friends to church? What if we truly realized that God has so much more to offer us than the world. What if we dropped our masks when we came to church and told people who we really were so we could begin the process of becoming what God really wants. What if MZS became a place synonymous with love, acceptance and grace.  This is what I desire to see happen in our group. Are you willing to become an Ambassador for Jesus Christ? This is God’s plan and purpose for you! You are God’s Masterpiece—don’t settle for the status quo.

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