Dawson in Ellijay
Saturday was a wonderful day for me and Dawson. Dawson sat on the bed with me as I watched some football. Dawson began to get tired and decided to cuddle up in my legs and watch the game with me. I wish with all my heart Dawson could talk and I wonder frequently what he would say to me if he only could speak. However I understand his emotions, looks, thoughts and especially his expression of love. It seems that lately my emotions and thoughts for Dawson are changing. I look at Dawson with the eyes of “my Heavenly Father” who knew my name before the creation of the world and knows everything about me. My Heavenly Father looks at Dawson and I as a masterpiece of His creation. Although Ruth and I are proactive with Dawson’s therapies (aba, speech), I do not look at Dawson and see autism first anymore. I see a boy who understands his parents love and in his own way reciprocates that same love. I must say it took me awhile to get to this point and the road has not been easy. Heavenly Father thank you for allowing me to be the father of Dawson. I place him in your hands the “Master Designer” of each of us! 
Jody, That was a beautiful picture of how God sees us. It never seems to make sense to our human minds the “thorns” God puts on our path. But each one is intended to draw us closer to His heart and make us a little more like Him! Your post encouraged me today! Thanks. Love you!
By: belle_o on September 9, 2008
at 4:10 pm
What an honor that God chose you and Ruth to be parents to such special boys. It was so good to hear from you. We are praying for you and your sweet family. Hopefully we can get together soon. I really need a meal from Cracker Barrel !
By: Dawn Barrett on September 9, 2008
at 11:22 pm
Jody – I found your blog through facebook. I just cried when I read what you wrote about Dawson – partly because it was so sweet and partly because I KNOW what you mean. Missie could talk but she could not communicate feelings, thoughts, needs, etc. I have said on so many occasions that I can read her looks and tell what king of mood she is in by the tone of her voice. I think God gives parents with special needs children a special sense to be able to “figure our” what our children need. Isn’t God good. You and Ruth are very special to me and Wayne and we pray for you daily. I hope you can look at us and know that God is faithful every day of your child’s life. It’s not always easy but just stay in the journey for the long haul because it certainly is rewarding.
By: Jill Johnson on September 10, 2008
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I was so touched by your comments. I was sitting at work having kind of a yucky start and then I read your blog. Thanks for reminding me that our children are made just how they are meant to be and how precious they are. It is an honor to be chosen by God to be a parent and a joy to watch them grow. Always know that we are praying for you not only for your own family but for your “youth family”. You are such a blessing to them. Your love and concern never goes unnoticed.
By: Jahn Burgstiner on September 18, 2008
at 10:34 am
Wow…you and Ruth are such an inspiration. I just read your blog this morning after having a few rough days with my kids due to daily stuff, and then I read this. It was God’s reminder through you to me that we are soooo blessed to have our children and that God created them to be who they are, and as He meets us where we’re at, we too should remember to do that more with our own kids. Thank you for your true dedication to your kids as well as ours. We are always here for you and Ruth if you ever need us.
By: Rhonda Walker on September 24, 2008
at 7:42 am
wow this is raly insperational!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
By: rachel hook on October 24, 2008
at 3:49 pm
i am so proud of u jody we love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ps i love crackl barrel i goin next time
By: rachel hook on October 24, 2008
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